University of Alabama football player, Courtney Upshaw, 19, and his girlfriend, Kendall Lynn Grzyb, 19, were arrested yesterday following a verbal altercation that turned physical.
A University of Alabama police officer arrested the couple after Upshaw allegedly became physical with Grzyb. According to reports, Grzyb and Upshaw had a verbal altercation at which point Grzyb walked away. Upshaw chased after her and according to the police report,
"grabbed (Kendall) Grzyb by the back of the neck and hair with his right hand and pushed her downward in what appeared to be an attempt to push her to the ground."
Grzyb escaped Upshaw's clutches and attempted to strike him, but at this point the police officer intervened. Both parties were arrested and Upshaw was charged with misdemeanor domestic violence and harassment.
An interesting note to this story is the fact that Grzyb's father, Dave Grzyb, indicated that the matter was a "simple lover's quarrel altercation." Further, Mr. Grzyb felt that the situation was initated by his daughter and he believed Upshaw had not laid on a hand on her.
New Jersey Criminal Lawyer Blog's Take: This is an interesting "lover's quarrel" as Dave Grzyb called it. First, we have the father taking the side of the football player over that of his own daughter. Naturally, this information is in contrast to the police report.
For purposes of this discussion, let's assume that Dave Grzyb is correct and this was really nothing but a lover's quarrel with no one injured and both parties refusing to press charges. The problem these individuals have is that a police officer observed their conduct. Further, the police officer has already memorialized his eyewitness account in a police report. This is a good lesson on why people should be aware of their actions. At the end of the day, it is most likely that neither party will face any serious convictions as a result of this incident. However, both parties will expend time and money as this proceeds through the system.
This is the classic example of how some people forget they live in the real world. You cannot engage in this type of behavior without consquences. This incident probably would not have been reported, but for the fact that police officer observed it. A good rule to apply is the same one we all learned in kindergarten: "keep your hands to yourself," and one can avoid the mess that these two University of Alabama students found themselves in.
Police Account says Upshaw grabbed Gryzb - Bama Beat
Father of girl involved in altercation: "I don't think he laid a hand on her." - Bama Beat
Tide Linebacker Courtney Upshaw and girlfriend arrested - Tide Source